Domestic Violence

In too many cases of domestic violence or domestic homicide, it is discovered too late that neighbours, friends and co-workers of the individuals involved knew there was something wrong. And while you should not become involved in a situation that could potentially cause you or others harm, it is important to know that you can play a part to help stop domestic violence. 

The most common reasons people do not get involved even when they suspect or know domestic violence is taking place are: 

• It’s none of my business
• If she wanted help she would ask for it
• I’m afraid I could make things worse and put her and her children and myself in more danger 

The Ottawa group Neighbours, Friends and Family (NFF) raises awareness of domestic violence and is trying to change the way people in Ottawa think about and respond to this issue. 

NFF wants people to understand and act on the following statements: 

• Violence is everyone’s business - Woman Abuse is a crime
• Often women who are abused are too afraid and too ashamed to see help on their own
• If you do nothing things will get worse – violence never gets better on its own 

Everyone in our communities has a role to play in helping to end domestic violence and violence against women. The first step is to learn the risk factors and the warning signs and then know who to call for help. 

NFF has many resources for people wanting to educate themselves about domestic violence at: http://neighboursfriendsandfamilies.ca/. 

You can also contact The Assaulted Women’s Helpline, a crisis line for abused women in Ontario at 1-866-863-0511 (TTY 1-866-863-7868), 24 hours a day. 

In the case of an emergency call the police (9-1-1).

For a listing of local support services:
http://octevaw-cocvff.ca/en/crisis_resources